Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to [email protected] or c/o Andrews ...

What should I say the next time the same very insecure person wants me to listen to yet another story about how drinking is ruining their life?

(Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com; to her email, [email protected]; or ...