Ben doesn’t get talked about nearly as much as he deserves. As everyone knows, we are busy people — running businesses, raising kids, homeschooling, taking care of the land… there is rarely such a thing as “down time” for us. We are almost always on task. Over Thanksgiving weekend, though, we knew we’d have about 24 hours with no kids. A whole day to fill with whatever selfish, relaxing things we wanted to do. Hazel was with her mom Serena for a few days (we split time), and the boys were off do